Are you getting totally frustrated due to the fact that you feel like all of your debts keep building and building yet you still make the same amount of money and you simply have no other way to handle it but rob good old Peter to pay poor old Paul? Doing that of course just continues to dig your hole deeper and deeper leaving you in an even bigger financial mess. You can seek help though to try and see the light at the end of the tunnel. Below will guide you towards finding that help.
Very first word of advice is to stop using your credit cards. That's it, quit it, take them out of your wallet and store them somewhere if you must, but stop using them. The main reason that most people are in debt over their heads is because they find themselves using those cards way too much. So the only way to stop that trend and stop digging that hole is to stop using the cards. If you don't have the cash to dish out for something then buy it later or just forget about it until you do have the cash to buy it. If you have to cut them up if you find it too hard to resist them. Decide from this moment on that you will use cash for everything plain and simple.
Be firm, get mad and commit yourself to obtaining financial freedom once and for all. Being in debt constantly simply stinks and it usually is because you made some bad decisions in the past and now, well face it, you are suffering the consequences from those decisions now. Go ahead get mad at those card companies for all the millions and millions of dollars they are making off of innocent people like you and maybe even your friends. Get upset at the fact they've been taking advantage of you for a very long time and be happy you are getting rid of their cards. You need to believe this in order to stay committed to being debt free.
After you have done this and prepared yourself you need to sit down and evaluate the financial situation you are currently in. You are going to have to fess up to it, you need to do something about this situation and do something now. Get a hold of all the bill collectors and card companies that you owe money to and find out exactly how much you really owe. Then figure out just how much money you are going to have to work for in order to set up a plan. Your plan is going to need to include all of your necessities, your debts and any miscellaneous things you may need as well. Decide how much money you want to go to all of the categories you might list and commit yourself to never go over that amount you have chosen!
Now you need to start paying off that debt. You need to start with the one that has the smallest balance due, pay it off and then move onto the one with the next smallest amount due. Continue to do this until they are all paid off.
Try and find some way to make a little extra money so that you can pay things off faster if you want. One thing you can do, is if you get a tax refund back, you should take that and put it towards your bills instead of treating yourself to something new. You're treating yourself by trying to take control of your finances.
By not using your cards, sitting down and seriously looking at your finances and paying off the credit card debt is going to help you get out of debt a lot faster than you think and will allow you to feel good about yourself as well.